Sexual Femininity and other personal characteristics

A harsh reality of mating is that if you’re a woman, roughly 80% of your sexual mastery is determined by how good you look. About a third of your appearance, mainly the part that relates to your physique, is attributable to your choices and can be improved through hard work and self-discipline. The following section covers the remaining 20 or so per cent, the female characteristics that have nothing to do with looks but which nonetheless have a significant impact on sexual mastery .

Femininity For the first hundreds of thousands of years of human existence, women were feminine and men were masculine. Both sides acknowledged that, because of biological differences, each had their own particular strengths and weaknesses. For the last three generations or so, however, it’s become fashionable to deny and suppress these gender differences. In Part Three I’ll talk about why this trend of gender equalization brought on by third wave feminism is misguided and has failed horrendously to improve the happiness of both sexes, but for now suffice it to say that current Western society feminizes its men and masculinizes its women. The concepts of femininity and masculinity pertain to the characteristics of a person that are quintessential to each gender. A good singing voice, for example, is not quintessentially female or male, but very high or very low pitch voices are. When we hear a man with a high voice or a woman with a low voice, men and women both cringe because it is abhorrent. It is perverse, in the true sense of the word, because it’s so sexually deviant and runs counter to the natural inclinations of the genders. Man’s natural state is masculinity; woman’s is femininity. Just as women find effeminate men sexually unappealing, a woman’s masculinity kills boners. Masculine men want feminine women and vice versa, but truly feminine women and masculine men in Europe and North America are scarce these days. Women are disenchanted with the lack of real men, men with the dearth of real women. Human biology is far older than gender equality theory, and so men still prefer womanly women and women still detest camp men. Learn more at and

Feminism, which in its first incarnation started with the very reasonable request for equal rights, got more than it bargained for with the advent of its second and third waves. Second and third wave feminism taught men that they were inherently bad and oppressive, a sort of original sin for being male, and that, since the sexes were essentially the same except for their genitals, any female lack of achievement must be attributable to male structural sexism. This made men fearful of being masculine and made them increasingly submissive. As men’s masculinity waned, that of women grew to take its place. When men stopped wearing the pants, women began to. Nature abhors a pants-wearing vacuum. As a result, we increasingly have a society of girly men and fierce women. Neither gender is content with that situation, for each gender is instinctively attracted to certain qualities which can only be found in the other. To raise sexual mastery , men must develop their masculine qualities and women their feminine ones. I’ll discuss some of the most important of the feminine qualities below. Learn more at


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